Company You Keep Says A Lot About You

Humans are social animals. We cannot imagine our life without our near and dear ones. Everyone needs someone to share their sorrows, happiness, fears and feelings. Friends hold a very important and special place in our lives. All other relations are bestowed upon us but friends are the one we choose and that’s what it makes it so special. In fact friends influence our lives the most. And it’s very true that the company you keep says a lot about you.

Friends can influence you positively or negatively in many walks of life. Positive friends will support you in the hour of need. You don’t have to go all about asking for help because the chances are that they may be there for you even without you asking them for help. On the other hand negative friends enjoy the failure of others which in turn makes you feel more miserable about yourself and your situation. Positive friends help you to rebound from the negative phase of your life and bring out the best in you. Many times people have goals which they are scared or ashamed of sharing with others. In such situations people find it more comfortable sharing their secret goal with positive friends. For example, somewhere in the corner of your heart you wanted to learn dance or pursue any other hobby but due to other responsibilities you could not. In such situations negative friends would give you reasons why it won’t you be successful or how it won’t be feasible. On the contrary positive friends would be appreciative of your goals and would encourage you to chase your unfulfilled dreams without being judgemental. Positive friends who are physically active will irritate you, bug you, and tease you to follow your exercise regimen. Exercise becomes more fun with a good friend by your side. Positive friends help you feel good about yourself and enhance your self-esteem and negative friends add on to your stress levels. If we have friends who stand by us through thick and thin, who encourage us and have belief in our dreams we can achieve the impossible and pessimistic friends will demotivate us and demoralize our spirits. So it’s very important to choose your friends wisely.

Here I would like to add a quote by Dr.Steve Maraboli”If you hang out with chickens you’re going to cluck and if you hang out with eagles, you’re going to fly”.

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- Sincerely Yours
Success Coach Nilesh
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