Friday, 21 July 2017

What Men and Women Don't Know About Each Other?

Hello Guys,
These are some of my notes from famous book “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus
Check it out if this is True ???



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​1. The way men and women view the world is different.
Men and women generally are unaware that they have DIFFERENT emotional needs.
Men primarily need trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement.
Women primarily need caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance.
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2. Men tend to calm down in confusion or anger.
Women tend to speak. It’s their natural way.
Men trust more if they left alone to deal with it.
Women need someone to dump inner baggage.
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3. Men are like rubber bands and women are like Ocean Waves.
Men Extends & comes back. That's done deal.
For Women, emotions come back again and again as waves.
It takes time to get rid of negative emotions. Brain connections are strong and emotional there. e.g. Dealing with In-Laws
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4.  When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the
loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.
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5. To feel better, women talk about past problems, future problems, potential problems, even problems that have no solutions. The more talk and exploration, the better they feel. This is the way women operate. To expect otherwise is to deny a woman her sense of self.
Talking is stress reliever for her. Healthy & Natural.
He does not realize that she is talking to feel better.
A man doesn't know that she will appreciate it if he just listens.
You can see how a "literal" translation of a woman's words could easily mislead a man who is used to using speech as a means of conveying only facts and information.
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6. When she is upset, worry about her…not about what she is worried of… SHE …Not What Causes the worry…In case of him... TRUST HIM and offer help solve stuff.
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7. He likes spontaneous gifts. Most women prefer surprises told advance. Their mind adds more juice if they know about it before hand.
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8. Martian feel good if they feel they are needed. Venusians feel good when they are cherished. 
To become motivated again he needs to feel appreciated, trusted, and accepted.
Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.
She should always feel, she is being loved. Small things at regular interval. e.g. Say I love you quite often. Occasional flowers. Love you texts. Touch then often. Kiss at forehead. Small gifts at Valentine day, anniversary, birthday. It’s not BIG GIFT ones. It’s small Gifts often. 
Women are hungry for love. Men are hungry for Appreciation.
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9.​ In summery: Listen to her, Feel what she is feeling, Ignore the words, Her waves come crashing every month .. on Venus its like that. Just listen.... Don't offer solutions..She wants Empathy..Not Solutions
It takes two to argue, but it only takes one to stop an argument.
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10. Men are logical. Women are emotional. High emotions. Low intelligence. 4 Magic words for Men….It’s not your fault.
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I thought it’s good to share with you. Worth Reading…
- Sincerely Yours -
Success Coach Nilesh
Success Strategy Specialist from the UK
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Friday, 14 July 2017

There’s a difference between gamble and calculated risk


Taking risk is important in life. But, at the same time it’s very important to calculate the risk, before plunging into unknown territory recklessly. Edmund H. North has aptly put it in his quote. He states that “I think there’s a difference between gamble and calculated risk”. As a beginner it is very easy to be elated at profits and panic at losses. What you need to learn from experience is to make the most the profits and to tackle and reduce the losses effectively.

The most important aspect is to invest the right amount in the first place. No one should invest more money than they can afford to lose. Added to that there is no point in investing huge amount into something wherein the profits are little. For example it would be meaning less to invest £100 if the gains are going to be £10.Before investing your money you need to make a rational, well-thought of and studied plan. By doing that you would have better control over your finance.

Remember, “A chance is what you take before you think about it. A calculated risk is what you take after you have evaluated all possible factors and have determined that risk.”-Craig Elliot


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All the Best and Stay in Touch.
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- Sincerely Yours -
Success Coach Nilesh
#1 Success Strategist
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Friday, 7 July 2017

You will never know if you don’t keep trying, the next time might be your time to success


It is said, “There are no short-cuts to success.” And in the case of Entrepreneurship it is absolutely true. So what is that one virtue that makes an entrepreneur successful? It is persistence. As it is aptly said by Steve Jobs “I’m convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.

Taking a decision to become an entrepreneur is hard but sticking by that decision with no immediate success is hardest. Many times as an entrepreneur you have to work for years together with no success at all and face extreme challenges and social pressure. These challenges would dampen your spirits and force you to quit. The only thing that can help you sail through in the time of adversities is your persistence. To overcome the hurdles and to bring your entrepreneurial dream into reality you have to keep trying and not get bogged down by failure. Here is a beautiful analogy of a river, “A river cuts through a rock not because of its power but its persistence.” So do not give up, hold on to that ‘can-do it’ attitude and keep learning from your failures.

Because, “You will never know if you don’t keep trying, the next time might be your time to success.”


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All the Best and Stay in Touch.
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- Sincerely Yours -
Success Coach Nilesh
#1 Success Strategist
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