Friday, 24 February 2017

There is immense freedom when you can let go of your barrier to prove yourself right


Nothing in this world is more harmful for your inner peace and happiness than the pursuit of being right. Each one of you has a lens over your eyes through which you view the world and on the basis of which you form individual opinions and perspectives. But being adamant on making the world to believe and accept that the world is as seen through your vision is detrimental for your own happiness.

People unknowingly choose being right over happiness which boosts their egos which in turn leads to their unquenchable need to prove their point and be in control of every situation. They argue, fight, stress themselves and sometimes even spoil relationships in their quest to prove themselves right. But what one fails to realise is that it requires abundant courage and broader mind-set to choose relationships and happiness over your ego to prove yourself right. There is no harm in having principles in life. But principles should not be chosen at the stake of peace, harmony and well-being of yourself and your loved ones. The need is to remove the lens and widen the horizon of your vision and be more open to accepting each other’s views and opinions. There is immense freedom when you can let go of your barrier to prove yourself right.

So, “Stop attaching so much weight to being right. In the grand scheme of things, being right is insignificant compared to being happy”-Deepak Chopra


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Friday, 17 February 2017

Fail faster, learn the lesson, alter your approach and bounce back



Nobody in this world likes to fail. But the fact is, nothing can teach us a most valuable and long-lasting lesson than failure. What do you mean by the word ‘F.A.I.L’? As said by Dr.Kalam, ‘F.A.I.L’ is first attempt in learning and learning is a never ending process of life. So, as long as you continue to learn you are bound to face the teacher called ‘Failure’.
Success has no short-cuts. The key is to keep experimenting different approaches until you crack the approach that works the best. The need is to fail faster, learn the lesson, alter your approach and bounce back. You cannot let failures slow you down or dampen your morale. Failure does not make you a loser but a winner who refuses to quit. Shun that fear and plunge over that risk because longer you take slower you’ll reach your destination.

Remember, the destination of success is only achieved through the path of failure. The quicker you accept it the faster you grow and closer you get to your ultimate destination called ‘SUCCESS’.


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Friday, 10 February 2017

Happiness is not in the destination; but in the journey itself


The ultimate goal of each and every individual on this earth is the same; to be happy. What do you think makes you happy? You may say a good job, a beautiful house, promotion, a lovely family or by being rich. But have you ever noticed the moment you attain these, your mind races to achieve something else to be happy. What you fail to realise is happiness is not in having or getting things for yourself but resides within yourself and amplifies by reaching out to others and by being more giving.

Happiness is not in the destination; but in the journey itself. It’s not in the terminus but in the anticipation. It’s the fuel or the motivation that makes life worthwhile. It is being at peace with oneself and loving yourself. Happier you are with yourself, happier you will make your surroundings. When you are happy and positive you become more motivated, focussed and dedicated at work which in turn leads to greater success in life. To be happy with oneself you need to learn to be grateful about everything in life, invest time in relationships and experiences, run less after worldly possessions, be more forgiving, helping and compassionate to other beings and lead a healthy life.


Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself”- Og Mandino


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Friday, 3 February 2017

First we form habits then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they’ll eventually conquer you


Your personality and your life are the reflection of your habits. The kind of shape you are in, your happiness or unhappiness quotient, your success quotient everything somewhat sums up to the kind of habits you are cultivating because habits are what you do repeatedly every day.

Habits can sway you towards either extreme. Positive habits can put you on the track of progress while negative habits can take you towards stagnation and negativity. So it’s important to take control over your negative habits such has procrastination, negative thinking, time mismanagement, or resisting change before it shapes up your personality and future. As quoted by Jill James, “First we form habits then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they’ll eventually conquer you.” On the other hand positive habits such as leading a healthy lifestyle, developing healthy relationships, positive thinking, work prioritisation and self-discipline can help you design a more fulfilling, meaningful and successful future.  To develop positive habits you need to observe self-discipline and self-awareness. Self-discipline and will power will provide you with motivation to get rid of negative habits and inculcate positive habits. Self-awareness will help you to recognise your own habits which will eventually help you to have control over them.

Remember, “You cannot change your future, but you can change your habits, and surely your habits will change your future.


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